I read your post and then remembered that this is a video game and one that must - eventually - deal with balance and how it interacts with gameplay....
Best way to use SEADs is on an aircraft with, preferably, exceptional ECM, tell it to loiter in an area around your lines and if there are any radar...
This language argument is kinda comical in how people are defending the term delusional as not being offensive when you use it in blanket statements...